The Other way to Love

Friday, April 11, 2025

Ephesians 5:25 says, "Husbands love your wives as Messiah loved the church and gave Himself up for her." It doesn't say, "husbands love your wives your own way," because how you love may leave much to be desired. But your love for your wife isn't based on 'your love' or your lack of it. And it's not dependent on her or how she loves. She isn't perfect- she makes mistakes, she forgets things, she's not as young and likely not as beautiful a she once was. Rather, love your wife as Messiah loves you. Chances are you're not perfect yourself and haven't been the spotless bride to God you're called to be. But He loves you anyway, and that's how you became beautiful. Love your loved one the same way- not as you would love them, but as Messiah loves you. He doesn't love you because you're beautiful, He loves you that you might become beautiful. Love others the same way, especially those who are hardest to love, and who knows- your love may help them become beautiful as well.

From Message #436 - Man to Woman